Hey hey hey. Did you all miss me? Yeah I'm sure you did! I have had a wonderful weekend in Center Parcs with my entire extended family and it was just lovely. So fun and relaxing and exactly the same as it is every year. That's one of the best parts about it! But, now I'm in the real world. And I have a question for you, and I really would like answers please! In fact I have two things requiring answers, but one is only silly. This is serious... Someone said to me recently that escapism will only take you so far... and my question is this, is that true? Because obviously I know that when escapism becomes the reality rather than reality itself then there is a problem. But escapism, the silent and individual joy of slipping into another world, or pretending that things are not the way they are in whatever shape or form, I don't think that ever can go too far. Imagining things into reality is a way of life for me. I constantly dream myself into or out of different situations and of course I understand the concerns with leaving reality behind, maybe that's what this person meant. But I really can't see that escapism is bad. If it makes you feel good, how can it be? (Within sensible reason obviously!) It's just an active imagination being put to use!
Anyway, my second purpose of this blog, I have something of a quiz... all the following songs (one line of which is written) have something in common... ten points to the person who gets it first:
"If I lay here, if I just lay here, would you lie with me and just forget the world"
"I'm Luke, I'm five and my Dad's Bruce Lee"
"Now most people think of heaven, and they see those pearly gates"
That's it, I'll give you an easy one if no-one can get it!
Enjoy. xxx
Monday, November 27, 2006
Thursday, November 23, 2006
Flustered.
Well, seems that some of you found out some things about me from my last post that you didn't know before! But anyways, I'm sure there'll always be things that not everyone knows, it's better that way.
So. I don't have very much exciting news today. I am going to Center Parcs tomorrow, something that I just cannot convey the excitement for. I can hardly contain myself I am so excited. I keep squealing and jumping up and down. This is my favourite weekend of the entire year... and this year Tim is coming too. I can't think of anything better.
But that wasn't what I wanted to say really. I wanted to comment on something of my personality that I find quite rediculous and funny. I guess that to begin with it's a funny thing to find yourself funny but never mind, we shan't dwell on that. The thing is that I sometimes get very flustered and everything seems wrong or 'vexing'. Twice in the past few days I've suddenly gotten myself all flustered and worked up. Today I got back from my lectures having been out all day and I was windswept and cold, ad my hair was a mess and my trousers were wet and muddy round the bottom and I was cross because I don't ever like those trousers and now I know why. And then I couldn't get my jumper off because it was too tight and I was too hot and in the end I just crumpled on the floor on the landing and declared I was staying there all evening. Which I would have done but Heather stood on me!!! :(
The reason I'm saying this is purely because I think it's funny. I get all worked up and then nothing is right and I can't make it right and I get cross and then I stamp my feet and I moan and complain... and none of it is real I think it's just my way of, well I don't know what of really! It's just an oddity of me!
I'll let you all know how my weekend goes! Be safe, be happy and don't get flustered!
So. I don't have very much exciting news today. I am going to Center Parcs tomorrow, something that I just cannot convey the excitement for. I can hardly contain myself I am so excited. I keep squealing and jumping up and down. This is my favourite weekend of the entire year... and this year Tim is coming too. I can't think of anything better.
But that wasn't what I wanted to say really. I wanted to comment on something of my personality that I find quite rediculous and funny. I guess that to begin with it's a funny thing to find yourself funny but never mind, we shan't dwell on that. The thing is that I sometimes get very flustered and everything seems wrong or 'vexing'. Twice in the past few days I've suddenly gotten myself all flustered and worked up. Today I got back from my lectures having been out all day and I was windswept and cold, ad my hair was a mess and my trousers were wet and muddy round the bottom and I was cross because I don't ever like those trousers and now I know why. And then I couldn't get my jumper off because it was too tight and I was too hot and in the end I just crumpled on the floor on the landing and declared I was staying there all evening. Which I would have done but Heather stood on me!!! :(
The reason I'm saying this is purely because I think it's funny. I get all worked up and then nothing is right and I can't make it right and I get cross and then I stamp my feet and I moan and complain... and none of it is real I think it's just my way of, well I don't know what of really! It's just an oddity of me!
I'll let you all know how my weekend goes! Be safe, be happy and don't get flustered!
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
FORTY FIVE MINUTES LATER!!!!
Full Name:: Katherine Joy Yarborough
Birthday:: 19th September
Birthplace:: Macclesfield
Eye Color:: Blue/green/grey
Hair Color:: Dark blondish/brown
Height:: 5'7''
Weight:: 9stone
Right handed or Left handed?: left
Your Heritage:: British
My Worst Habit:: picking my fingernails.
Zodiac Sign:: Virgo
Shoe Size:: 6
Pants Size:: 8
Innie or Outie?: Innie
Parents Still Together?: Yes
The Shoes You Wore Today:: Black boots
Your Weakness:: Chocolate, pianists
Your Fears:: being attacked
Your Perfect Pizza:: chicken and sweetcorn
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year:: shave all my hair off!
Your Most Overused Phrase On An Instant Messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up:: I'm not capable of thinking in the morning
Your Best Physical Feature:: my bottom!
Your Bedtime:: When I'm tired.
Your Most Missed Memory:: New Zealand
MY FAVORITES
Favorite color?: red or orange
Food?: fried breakfast
Sport?: I don't do sport. Ever.
Animal?: Lion
Ice Cream?: Ben and Jerry's Phish Food
Candy?: fizzy cola bottles
Store?: erm... Monsoon, though I've never bought anything there!
Salad Dressing?: My Grandma's rasperry vinegar thing
Actor?: Johnny Depp, Colin Firth, Nicole Kidman
Song?: So many... You Belong to Me from Shrek
Letter?: K
Number?: Anything even
Gum?: I hate gum
Holiday?: Yearly Center Parcs trip
Season?: Autumn
Toothpaste Flavor?: Mint. Anything else is wrong!
Radio Station?: Radio 1
Perfume?: I don't like perfume.
Scent besides perfume?: freshly cut grass, baked bread
Body part on the opposite sex?: Back
FRIENDS AND LIFE
What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?: I don't want to grow up.
How Do You Want To Die?: Dramatically.
Which One Of Your Friends Acts The Most Like You?: I don't think any of them do.
Who's The Loudest?: Helen
Who Makes You Laugh The Most?: Everyone!
Who Have You Known The Longest?: I think Sarah
When Have You Cried The Most?: I don't know I cry that often!
What Is The Best Feeling In The World?: forgetting everything around you and just being totally happy, performing in a concert/play/anything
Worst Feeling?: letting yourself down, disappointment
Where Do You Want To Live When You Grow Up?: in the countryside.
If You Could Change One Thing About You What Would It Be?: more self confidence
How Long Do You Think You'll Live?: Not a clue!
FINISH EACH SENTENCE
Let's walk on the: top of the wall
Let's look at the: sea
What a nice: cup of tea
Where did all the: flowers go?
Why can't we: fly?
Silly, little: boys.
Isn't it weird that: we can only ever see the world through our eyes. You can't borrow someone elses.
Never under any circumstance: judge me.
I wish: upon a star.
Everyone has a: heart.
I am: rediculous.
HAVE YOU EVER
Been In Love?: yes.
Mooned Someone?: um....
Been Rejected?: yes.
Ran Away From Home?: no
Skipped School?: yes
Thought About Suicide?: no
Slept Outside?: yes, I love it!
Laughed So Hard You Cried?: yes
Cried In School?: yes
Thrown Up In School?: no
Wanted To Be a Model?: not really.
Cheated On Someone?: no, never.
Done Something Really Stupid That You Still Laugh At Today?: oh plenty!
Seen A Dead Body?: no
Drank Alcohol?: yes
Smoked?: yes
Been On Drugs?: no
Eaten Sushi?: no, but have eaten raw fish
Been On Stage?: yes I loved it!
Gone Skinny Dipping?: oh yes! Would love to do it again!
Shoplifted?: Don't think so!
Been Drunk?: Yes, but not very often
Been Called A Tease?: No
Been Beaten Up?: No
DO YOU
Swear?: generally no
Sing Well?: I don't know about well, but I sing.
Shower Daily?: yes
Want To Go To College?: Already have done
Want To Get Married?: YES!!!!!
Believe In Yourself?: Occasionally
Get Motion Sickness?: Nope
Think You Are Attractive?: Sometimes I look quite pretty.
Get Along With Your Parents?: Always
Like Thunderstorms?: Oh yeah! Awesome!
Play An Instrument?: Flute, saxaphone and singing. Wish to the end of the earth I played the trumpet.
Own An IPOD?: Nope, a Zen
Pray?: All the time
Go To Church?: Yes
Sleep With Stuffed Animals?: Yes!
Keep A Journal/Diary?: Yes
Dance In The Rain?: I love dancing in the rain!
Sing In The Shower?: Yep
THIS OR THAT
Pepsi or Coke?: Coke
McDonald's or Burger King?: Neither
Single or Group Dates?: Single
Chocolate or Vanilla?: Chocolate
Strawberries or Blueberries?: Both
Meat or Veggies?: MEAT! I am such a carnivore!
TV or Movie?: Movie
Guitar or Drums?: Guitar
Adidas or Nike?: Neither
Chinese or Mexican?: Chinese, but only if I'm in the right mood
Cheerios or Corn Flakes?: Cheerios!
Cake or Pie?: BOTH!
MTV or VH1?: MTV
Blind or Deaf?: Errr... what which I'd prefer to be? I think deaf.
Boxers or Briefs?: boxers
CAN YOU
Do The Splits?: No.
Write With Both Hands?: No, lefty all the way!
Whistle?: Yes
Blow A Bubble?: yes
Roll Your Tongue In A Circle?: yes
Cross Your Eyes?: No
Walk With Your Toes Curled?: Yep have just tried!
Touch Your Tongue to Your Nose?: No
Dance?: Yes
Eat Whatever You Want And Not Worry?: Yes
WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON
You Touched:: errr.. I don't know, probably one of my housemates or someone I brushed past in the street!
You Talked To On The Phone:: Sarah Trickey
You Hugged:: Nicola
You Yelled At:: I haven't yelled for a long time
You Played A Sport With:: That must actually be years ago!
WHAT'S THE LAST
Time You Laughed?: Last night watching a video on Nicola's camera...
Time You Cried?: Sunday night
Movie You Watched?: Lord of the Rings The Return of the King
Flavor Of Gum You Chewed?: No idea was so long ago.
Joke You Told?: Guess who I bumped into in Specsavers yesterday? ... everyone!
Song You've Sung?: Am singing along to Shape of My Heart by Sting right now.
RIGHT AT THIS MOMENT
Where Are You?: Sitting at my desk
What Can You See Out Your Window?: Trees
Are You Listening To Music?: Yes
What Are You Wearing?: cord skirt, tights, green Durham hoodie
What's On Your Mousepad?: Laptop
BELIEFS
Do you believe there is life on other planets?: I don't think so, but I don't really know
Do you believe in miracles?: yes
Magic?: yes
Love at first sight?: no, attraction
God?: Yes
Satan?: Yes
Ghosts?: No
Santa?: errr....
Evolution?: yes
IN A BOY...
Fav Eye Color:: Brown
Fav Hair Color:: Dark
Short or Long Hair:: either, and long as its good
Height:: taller than me.
Weight:: Don't mind.
RANDOM
What Country Would You Most Like To Visit?: Alaska
Number Of CD's I Own:: Loads
Do you have tattoos/piercings:: Yes.. one tattoo and 3 piercings
Your Good Luck Charm:: don't have one
How many pillows do you sleep with?: 1
Do you drink milk?: No, but I do have it on cereal
Person You Hate Most:: I don't hate anyone.
Most Outdated Phrase:: cool
Do you think God has a gender?: No
Where do you think we go when we die?: depends on our beliefs.
How many rings until you answer the phone?: As long as it takes till I get there
What is something scientists need to invent?: Something to make guys experience everything a girl does when she's on her period. They just do not get it.
Are you a health freak?: No!!!
Are you a virgin?: Yes
If you could travel into space, where would you go?: Space!
What is the worst weather?: Drizzly rain that's neither here nor there.
Did you play with Barbies as a child?: No, I had Cindy and Sylvanian Families!
How many grades have you failed?: None
Appologies if this is boring. I like doing them, and it's a great way to waste 45 mins when you don't want to work!
Birthday:: 19th September
Birthplace:: Macclesfield
Eye Color:: Blue/green/grey
Hair Color:: Dark blondish/brown
Height:: 5'7''
Weight:: 9stone
Right handed or Left handed?: left
Your Heritage:: British
My Worst Habit:: picking my fingernails.
Zodiac Sign:: Virgo
Shoe Size:: 6
Pants Size:: 8
Innie or Outie?: Innie
Parents Still Together?: Yes
The Shoes You Wore Today:: Black boots
Your Weakness:: Chocolate, pianists
Your Fears:: being attacked
Your Perfect Pizza:: chicken and sweetcorn
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year:: shave all my hair off!
Your Most Overused Phrase On An Instant Messenger: lol
Thoughts First Waking Up:: I'm not capable of thinking in the morning
Your Best Physical Feature:: my bottom!
Your Bedtime:: When I'm tired.
Your Most Missed Memory:: New Zealand
MY FAVORITES
Favorite color?: red or orange
Food?: fried breakfast
Sport?: I don't do sport. Ever.
Animal?: Lion
Ice Cream?: Ben and Jerry's Phish Food
Candy?: fizzy cola bottles
Store?: erm... Monsoon, though I've never bought anything there!
Salad Dressing?: My Grandma's rasperry vinegar thing
Actor?: Johnny Depp, Colin Firth, Nicole Kidman
Song?: So many... You Belong to Me from Shrek
Letter?: K
Number?: Anything even
Gum?: I hate gum
Holiday?: Yearly Center Parcs trip
Season?: Autumn
Toothpaste Flavor?: Mint. Anything else is wrong!
Radio Station?: Radio 1
Perfume?: I don't like perfume.
Scent besides perfume?: freshly cut grass, baked bread
Body part on the opposite sex?: Back
FRIENDS AND LIFE
What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?: I don't want to grow up.
How Do You Want To Die?: Dramatically.
Which One Of Your Friends Acts The Most Like You?: I don't think any of them do.
Who's The Loudest?: Helen
Who Makes You Laugh The Most?: Everyone!
Who Have You Known The Longest?: I think Sarah
When Have You Cried The Most?: I don't know I cry that often!
What Is The Best Feeling In The World?: forgetting everything around you and just being totally happy, performing in a concert/play/anything
Worst Feeling?: letting yourself down, disappointment
Where Do You Want To Live When You Grow Up?: in the countryside.
If You Could Change One Thing About You What Would It Be?: more self confidence
How Long Do You Think You'll Live?: Not a clue!
FINISH EACH SENTENCE
Let's walk on the: top of the wall
Let's look at the: sea
What a nice: cup of tea
Where did all the: flowers go?
Why can't we: fly?
Silly, little: boys.
Isn't it weird that: we can only ever see the world through our eyes. You can't borrow someone elses.
Never under any circumstance: judge me.
I wish: upon a star.
Everyone has a: heart.
I am: rediculous.
HAVE YOU EVER
Been In Love?: yes.
Mooned Someone?: um....
Been Rejected?: yes.
Ran Away From Home?: no
Skipped School?: yes
Thought About Suicide?: no
Slept Outside?: yes, I love it!
Laughed So Hard You Cried?: yes
Cried In School?: yes
Thrown Up In School?: no
Wanted To Be a Model?: not really.
Cheated On Someone?: no, never.
Done Something Really Stupid That You Still Laugh At Today?: oh plenty!
Seen A Dead Body?: no
Drank Alcohol?: yes
Smoked?: yes
Been On Drugs?: no
Eaten Sushi?: no, but have eaten raw fish
Been On Stage?: yes I loved it!
Gone Skinny Dipping?: oh yes! Would love to do it again!
Shoplifted?: Don't think so!
Been Drunk?: Yes, but not very often
Been Called A Tease?: No
Been Beaten Up?: No
DO YOU
Swear?: generally no
Sing Well?: I don't know about well, but I sing.
Shower Daily?: yes
Want To Go To College?: Already have done
Want To Get Married?: YES!!!!!
Believe In Yourself?: Occasionally
Get Motion Sickness?: Nope
Think You Are Attractive?: Sometimes I look quite pretty.
Get Along With Your Parents?: Always
Like Thunderstorms?: Oh yeah! Awesome!
Play An Instrument?: Flute, saxaphone and singing. Wish to the end of the earth I played the trumpet.
Own An IPOD?: Nope, a Zen
Pray?: All the time
Go To Church?: Yes
Sleep With Stuffed Animals?: Yes!
Keep A Journal/Diary?: Yes
Dance In The Rain?: I love dancing in the rain!
Sing In The Shower?: Yep
THIS OR THAT
Pepsi or Coke?: Coke
McDonald's or Burger King?: Neither
Single or Group Dates?: Single
Chocolate or Vanilla?: Chocolate
Strawberries or Blueberries?: Both
Meat or Veggies?: MEAT! I am such a carnivore!
TV or Movie?: Movie
Guitar or Drums?: Guitar
Adidas or Nike?: Neither
Chinese or Mexican?: Chinese, but only if I'm in the right mood
Cheerios or Corn Flakes?: Cheerios!
Cake or Pie?: BOTH!
MTV or VH1?: MTV
Blind or Deaf?: Errr... what which I'd prefer to be? I think deaf.
Boxers or Briefs?: boxers
CAN YOU
Do The Splits?: No.
Write With Both Hands?: No, lefty all the way!
Whistle?: Yes
Blow A Bubble?: yes
Roll Your Tongue In A Circle?: yes
Cross Your Eyes?: No
Walk With Your Toes Curled?: Yep have just tried!
Touch Your Tongue to Your Nose?: No
Dance?: Yes
Eat Whatever You Want And Not Worry?: Yes
WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON
You Touched:: errr.. I don't know, probably one of my housemates or someone I brushed past in the street!
You Talked To On The Phone:: Sarah Trickey
You Hugged:: Nicola
You Yelled At:: I haven't yelled for a long time
You Played A Sport With:: That must actually be years ago!
WHAT'S THE LAST
Time You Laughed?: Last night watching a video on Nicola's camera...
Time You Cried?: Sunday night
Movie You Watched?: Lord of the Rings The Return of the King
Flavor Of Gum You Chewed?: No idea was so long ago.
Joke You Told?: Guess who I bumped into in Specsavers yesterday? ... everyone!
Song You've Sung?: Am singing along to Shape of My Heart by Sting right now.
RIGHT AT THIS MOMENT
Where Are You?: Sitting at my desk
What Can You See Out Your Window?: Trees
Are You Listening To Music?: Yes
What Are You Wearing?: cord skirt, tights, green Durham hoodie
What's On Your Mousepad?: Laptop
BELIEFS
Do you believe there is life on other planets?: I don't think so, but I don't really know
Do you believe in miracles?: yes
Magic?: yes
Love at first sight?: no, attraction
God?: Yes
Satan?: Yes
Ghosts?: No
Santa?: errr....
Evolution?: yes
IN A BOY...
Fav Eye Color:: Brown
Fav Hair Color:: Dark
Short or Long Hair:: either, and long as its good
Height:: taller than me.
Weight:: Don't mind.
RANDOM
What Country Would You Most Like To Visit?: Alaska
Number Of CD's I Own:: Loads
Do you have tattoos/piercings:: Yes.. one tattoo and 3 piercings
Your Good Luck Charm:: don't have one
How many pillows do you sleep with?: 1
Do you drink milk?: No, but I do have it on cereal
Person You Hate Most:: I don't hate anyone.
Most Outdated Phrase:: cool
Do you think God has a gender?: No
Where do you think we go when we die?: depends on our beliefs.
How many rings until you answer the phone?: As long as it takes till I get there
What is something scientists need to invent?: Something to make guys experience everything a girl does when she's on her period. They just do not get it.
Are you a health freak?: No!!!
Are you a virgin?: Yes
If you could travel into space, where would you go?: Space!
What is the worst weather?: Drizzly rain that's neither here nor there.
Did you play with Barbies as a child?: No, I had Cindy and Sylvanian Families!
How many grades have you failed?: None
Appologies if this is boring. I like doing them, and it's a great way to waste 45 mins when you don't want to work!
Friday, November 17, 2006
Learn to Love.
Every single human being needs love. And I'm not talking about some flimsy, fantasy thing from an over played pop song... "all you need is love". I'm talking about real love. Love that sustains, love that encourages, love that provides, love that respects, love that builds up, love that forgives. All you need to do to find out what happens to someone when they have no love in their life is look at the terribly tragic stories of neglected children, beaten wives, abused boys, poverty-stricken families with no-where to go. We cannot survive without love, and yet love is something that has become so 'dumbed down' and 'over-rated' in our society today. So many people place more importance on possessions than relationships. On good sex than mutual respect. On fancy holidays than emotional support. I could go on.
How many times do we see real, true, open, raw examples of love? Sure we occasionally read a nice story in the news about someone rescuing their loved one from the side of a glacier in Iceland (I really hope they have glaciers in Iceland or Tim will point and laugh at me...) But my point is, when was the last time you saw someone sacrifice themselves for the sake of someone else? When was the last time you saw someone get hurt to save someone else? When was the last time you saw a true demonstration of love? In fact, come to think of it when was the last time you demonstrated just how much you love someone? I can say that I love Tim every 20 seconds, but unless I show it, it means nothing.
Our world has become so loveless in so many ways. Love is not insipid. It is not a romantic song, or a flower, or an expensive necklace. Love is real. Love is hard work. Love is patient. Love is kind. Love doesn't get angry. Love doesn't get jealous. Love doesn't boast. Love always protects. Love always trusts. Love always hopes. Love always perseveres. When was the last time you experienced love like that? Or showed someone you loved them like that?
In the end of it there are only three things: Faith. Hope. Love. And the greatest one of these, is love.
(From the Bible: 1 Corinthians 13.)
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love. And be loved in return."
How many times do we see real, true, open, raw examples of love? Sure we occasionally read a nice story in the news about someone rescuing their loved one from the side of a glacier in Iceland (I really hope they have glaciers in Iceland or Tim will point and laugh at me...) But my point is, when was the last time you saw someone sacrifice themselves for the sake of someone else? When was the last time you saw someone get hurt to save someone else? When was the last time you saw a true demonstration of love? In fact, come to think of it when was the last time you demonstrated just how much you love someone? I can say that I love Tim every 20 seconds, but unless I show it, it means nothing.
Our world has become so loveless in so many ways. Love is not insipid. It is not a romantic song, or a flower, or an expensive necklace. Love is real. Love is hard work. Love is patient. Love is kind. Love doesn't get angry. Love doesn't get jealous. Love doesn't boast. Love always protects. Love always trusts. Love always hopes. Love always perseveres. When was the last time you experienced love like that? Or showed someone you loved them like that?
In the end of it there are only three things: Faith. Hope. Love. And the greatest one of these, is love.
(From the Bible: 1 Corinthians 13.)
"The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love. And be loved in return."
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
Something to think about...
You mustn't look at God in the light of your circumstances, but you should look at your curcumstances in the light of who God is.
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
Before I'm 30...
I'm going to write my list of the things I want to be before I'm 30 just to lighten the mood, I feel things have got too serious for me. It frightens me!
Oh and btw I realised that 'before I'm 30' equals only 9 years!!!
I want to...
- make a Bishop's hat talk, it looks like a beak!
- shave all my hair off, to raise money for charity
- squish a banana on my glasses
- do a parachute jump
- break a bone in my body (other than my toe which doesn't count!)
- get more qualified than Tim! (which basically means I'll have to do a PhD!)
- go to Alaska
I think that's pretty much it for now. It's not massively exciting, just some things I want to do! Swimming with dolphins would be on but I've done that, as with getting a tattoo, did that too!!! (for a picture, go to www.myspace.com/steelpaintbrush and go to the pics section, mine's the word 'joy' on the sole of my foot) Oh and skinny dipping was on it, but I did that in Peru!
So I'll keep you posted as to whether I do them!
Oh and btw I realised that 'before I'm 30' equals only 9 years!!!
I want to...
- make a Bishop's hat talk, it looks like a beak!
- shave all my hair off, to raise money for charity
- squish a banana on my glasses
- do a parachute jump
- break a bone in my body (other than my toe which doesn't count!)
- get more qualified than Tim! (which basically means I'll have to do a PhD!)
- go to Alaska
I think that's pretty much it for now. It's not massively exciting, just some things I want to do! Swimming with dolphins would be on but I've done that, as with getting a tattoo, did that too!!! (for a picture, go to www.myspace.com/steelpaintbrush and go to the pics section, mine's the word 'joy' on the sole of my foot) Oh and skinny dipping was on it, but I did that in Peru!
So I'll keep you posted as to whether I do them!
Monday, November 06, 2006
the grass is always greener...
... no not just a good Travis song, but also a very true saying.
Since my last post (for which I am very grateful for the encouraging comments I received though I hope people know I wasn't scrounging for compliments...) I have been thinking about some of the things I said. I commented that most of the time I wish I was someone else. And it's one of those things where you could all tell me you love me the way I am until you're blue in the face, but I will always have a hard time believing it.
But anyway, I got to thinking (and thanks Nicola for our conversation earlier!) and I'm sure that this is no revelation or rocket science, but I reckon that no matter who I was I would want to be someone else. You know, I don't think that 'me' is the problem. I think the problem is much deeper than that and is much more of an insecurity in who I am, no matter who I am. If you see what I mean.
I don't know about other people, but I get the feeling with myself, that it really wouldn't matter who I was, I don't think I'll ever be happy with myself. I really truely do not want sympathy from this, and I know that there are lots of people who love me. I know there are lots of people who would say they want to be more like me and that's great, I like to hear things like that, of course I do, everyone does! All I'm saying is that I don't know if I'll ever be able to believe it in my heart.
I guess this is all abit open and honest and raw. For all that I talk alot and tell people alot, I don't think this is something I've often said. I don't totally know why I'm writing it all here, maybe by seeing it all written down I can learn to get over it... or maybe someone else will take comfort from knowing they aren't the only one to dislike themselves. I know that everyone has parts of themselves that they wish they could change, and in all honesty I have no idea what the solution would be to this. Maybe that's another one of my problems though, I'm always looking for solutions, and just maybe Kat, somethings can't be fixed.
Since my last post (for which I am very grateful for the encouraging comments I received though I hope people know I wasn't scrounging for compliments...) I have been thinking about some of the things I said. I commented that most of the time I wish I was someone else. And it's one of those things where you could all tell me you love me the way I am until you're blue in the face, but I will always have a hard time believing it.
But anyway, I got to thinking (and thanks Nicola for our conversation earlier!) and I'm sure that this is no revelation or rocket science, but I reckon that no matter who I was I would want to be someone else. You know, I don't think that 'me' is the problem. I think the problem is much deeper than that and is much more of an insecurity in who I am, no matter who I am. If you see what I mean.
I don't know about other people, but I get the feeling with myself, that it really wouldn't matter who I was, I don't think I'll ever be happy with myself. I really truely do not want sympathy from this, and I know that there are lots of people who love me. I know there are lots of people who would say they want to be more like me and that's great, I like to hear things like that, of course I do, everyone does! All I'm saying is that I don't know if I'll ever be able to believe it in my heart.
I guess this is all abit open and honest and raw. For all that I talk alot and tell people alot, I don't think this is something I've often said. I don't totally know why I'm writing it all here, maybe by seeing it all written down I can learn to get over it... or maybe someone else will take comfort from knowing they aren't the only one to dislike themselves. I know that everyone has parts of themselves that they wish they could change, and in all honesty I have no idea what the solution would be to this. Maybe that's another one of my problems though, I'm always looking for solutions, and just maybe Kat, somethings can't be fixed.
Saturday, November 04, 2006
??????
Do you ever wonder why you are the person you are? Not just who you are... but why. What factors have made you into the person you are today. What did you parents do/believe that gave you the beliefs you have today? What kind of background do you have? Do you agree with it or did you rebel against it? Why did you have the kind of friends you had? Why do you have the kind of friends you have now? Was it all by accident? Or did you deliberately fashion youself the way you wanted to be? Or the way you didn't want to be?
If you could, would you completely swap your life for someone elses? Who? Why? Or maybe would you change a few things about your life? Or keep it the same? Maybe you wish you were cooler? Or richer? Or more daring? Or less stupid? Or more intelligent? Or less intelligent? Maybe you wish you'd 'been there and done everything'? Maybe you wish you hadn't...?
I don't really know where all these questions have come from and it isn't at all what I intended to write today... but I was just thinking about all the millions of little details, people, beliefs, societies, etc etc etc that have come together to make each one of us the person we are today. In all honesty, most of the time I wish I was someone else. I look at all the different people around me, my friends, people I admire, people who I barely know and wish I was more like them in one way or another.
Usually it helps me to think that the God I believe in is so big and so perfect that he doesn't make mistakes, and so for one reason or another, He made me turn out exactly the way I am today on purpose. I have so many problems and faults and issues and fears and dislikes with myself, but if God is all-powerful, which I am totally convinces He is, then I guess it should comfort me that He loves me just the way I am... Interesting things to think about.
If you could, would you completely swap your life for someone elses? Who? Why? Or maybe would you change a few things about your life? Or keep it the same? Maybe you wish you were cooler? Or richer? Or more daring? Or less stupid? Or more intelligent? Or less intelligent? Maybe you wish you'd 'been there and done everything'? Maybe you wish you hadn't...?
I don't really know where all these questions have come from and it isn't at all what I intended to write today... but I was just thinking about all the millions of little details, people, beliefs, societies, etc etc etc that have come together to make each one of us the person we are today. In all honesty, most of the time I wish I was someone else. I look at all the different people around me, my friends, people I admire, people who I barely know and wish I was more like them in one way or another.
Usually it helps me to think that the God I believe in is so big and so perfect that he doesn't make mistakes, and so for one reason or another, He made me turn out exactly the way I am today on purpose. I have so many problems and faults and issues and fears and dislikes with myself, but if God is all-powerful, which I am totally convinces He is, then I guess it should comfort me that He loves me just the way I am... Interesting things to think about.
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